Hendrika has loved the concept of kink since childhood. The idea of being kidnapped and confined was the trigger to her exploration into the world of bondage. This combined with her love for colourful silky smooth scarves since the age of 7 when her mum wore a bright blue silk scarf when they were living in the UK on a cold winter’s night. Was the awakening of her struggle that she was born in the wrong body. Since that time she has struggled with self love and acceptance.
Born and raised in Singapore, she learnt much about kink life during her univeristy days in Brisbane, Australia through the local community. She returned to Singapore after graduation and carried on building the kink network in SG before permanently relocating back to Brisbane in 2015 to chase her dreams to live a truly authentic life.